Part one of my reading at the Inspired Word NYC reading series, GBLT night. Poems: Pocketbook, School Boy Valentine, February 8, 2012

Part two of the Inspired Word NYC reading. Poem: Unsolicited Advice to a New Butch (aka the Butch Poem), February 8, 2012

He Said/We Said–May from dapperQ on Vimeo.

Short interview with me about masculinity and style, part of DapperQ’s He Said/We Said.

Another snippet of “The Right One,” this time performed at the November 2010 Sex Blogger Calendar Party, New York City

Fucking with Gender by Sinclair Sexsmith – The CSPH Conference: Talking About the Taboo from maymay on Vimeo.

10 October, 2010, at the 2nd Annual CSPH Conference, “Talking About the Taboo:” “Gender does not dictate your personality,” Sinclair Sexsmith says in this condensed version of her Fucking with Gender workshop at The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health’s 2nd annual conference. Sinclair, who writes the award-winning gender and sexuality blog, is a “kinky, queer, butch top” who used writing as a way to explore her own gender and, eventually, wrote herself into the sex life she wished she had. “Gender labels,” she says, “are a starting point, not an ending point,” and by keeping this in mind you, Sinclair offers some advice about how you can go after—and ultimately get—what you want in the bedroom, and also out of it. Please help spread acceptance of sex, gender, and relationships education and exploration by supporting The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health. Visit today.

Interview with at SXSW, March 2010

Snippet of my poem “The Right One,” performed at Bulldyke Chronicles, February 2010

Reading “A Quick Fuck in a Shadowed Corner” at In The Flesh reading series, April 2009

Behind the Scenes of the Sex Blogger Calendar Photo Shoot, Fall 2008

Me In A Nutshell, duet, from the Bowery Poetry Club, May 2008

Apple Pie Chart performed at Bent Writing Institute’s showcase, Seattle, October 2005