6-book Novella Series (2017)
Sweet & Rough: Sixteen Stories of Queer Smut (2014)
—Rachel Kramer Bussel, editor of The Big Book of Orgasms
Sweet, sensual adoration and dirty, rough sex meet in this anthology of queer smut penned by Top Sex Blogger Sinclair Sexsmith. The complete collection includes sixteen of Sinclair’s best queer erotica short stories, full of dapper dates, femmes in pretty dresses, flogging, bondage, flirting on the subway, bold moves, and (of course) strap-ons. From ongoing lovers to one-night stands, the kinky queer butch top protagonist delivers heart and dominance, over and over.
Lambda Literary Award finalist for the Lesbian Erotica category! For more information about Sweet & Rough, click here.
Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica (2012)
Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica, released in April 2012 by Cleis Press, is available from all major booksellers, as well as Amazon.
Best Lesbian Erotica 2012
Best Lesbian Erotica 2012, published in December 2011 by Cleis Press, is available from all major booksellers, including Amazon.
And then of course there’s Sugarbutch …
I’ve been writing at Sugarbutch since 2006. Browse through the categories dirty stories, essays, advice, reviews, and journal entries, or browse through the recent stuff.
Articles, Interviews, Podcasts, and more
- November 19, 2020: The Dildorks Episode 215: Touch Me So Write
- November 7, 2020: Sharing sex-positive shit — On Queer Street
- September 11, 2020: Guest advice on Stoya's How To Do It column on Slate
- June 20, 2020: The best lesbian erotica, from free porn to erotic films on Daily Dot
- June 18, 2020: Constellations #4 — Puppy Pile on Autostraddle
- May 21, 2020: Constellations #3: Bennett & Reina Turn Concrete to Sand on Autostraddle
- April 30, 2020: Constellations #2 — Paige & Tacey A Good Girl on Autostraddle
- April 23, 2020: Constellations #1 — Bennet & Paige On A Silver Platter on Autostraddle
- March 9, 2020: The best erotica collections of 2020 on sofiagray.com
- February 14, 2020: The Best Free Online Erotica for One-Handed Reading on Shape
- January 20, 2020: Review: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 4 on Love Bytes: LGBTQ Book Reviews
- January 20, 2020: 11 Steamy and Free Erotic Literature Sites on Refinery
- December 27, 2019: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 4 featured on Publisher's Weekly
- December 19, 2019: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 4 on MI Book Reviews
- September 16, 2019: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 4 Book Review from @kleffnotes on The Nerdy Girl Express
- December 20, 2018: 12 Days of Girly Juice 2018: 5 Sex-Savvy Superheroes on GirlyJuice by Kate Sloan
- July 20, 2018: 6 Best Places on the Internet To Read Lesbian Erotica on Cosmopolitan
- July 9, 2018: "Sex Outside the Lines", Interview on The Advocate
- July 5, 2018: 11 of the best lesbian erotica books and short stories on Cosmopolitan UK
- July 4, 2018: The Dildorks Podcast, Episode 93: Protocol Me Maybe
- April 18, 2018: Mention of Sinclair on 3 D/s Protocols I’m Loving Lately on Girlyjuice by Kate Sloan
- February 13, 2018: Why Some People Don't Like Morning Sex on Vice
- January 23, 2018: How To Get (Or Give) A Strap-On Blow Job on Autostraddle
- July 27, 2017: Our Bodies, Our Selves Interview in Our Lives Madison by Marcelle Richards
- March 21, 2017: Sex in the air: LGBTQ speaker talks BDSM politics
- September 12, 2016: View From The Top: Wine and Pie and Collars on Autostraddle
- May 24, 2016: View From The Top: Theory Is Foreplay, Right? on Autostraddle
- May 12, 2016: Potency at Portals at Body Trust
- May 10, 2016: View From The Top: Canes Are Sticks!
- April 27, 2016: The Best of Butch Twitter on AfterEllen
- April 26, 2016: View From The Top: It’s Like 10,000 Femme Tops When All You Need Is A Bottom on Autostraddle
- April 20, 2016: The (Gender) Book of Love on Pure Pop for Queer Lovers Radio
- April 15, 2016: Two of the Most Essential Embodiment Skills on Body Trust
- April 12, 2016: View From The Top: Don’t Come Until I Say You Can on Autostraddle
- April 1, 2016: Sex Links / Sex with Timaree
- March 29, 2016: View From The Top: Dividing Acts and Power on Autostraddle
- March 25, 2016: Contributor Interview for the Autostraddle Insider, Issue 21
- March 15, 2016: View From The Top: How I Went From Top To Dominant on Autostraddle
- March 1, 2016: View From The Top: How Topping Taught Me Physics And Feminism on Autostraddle
- February 19, 2016: TGIF: WEEK OF FEBRUARY 19TH, 2016 on The CSPH
- February 16, 2016: View From The Top: The First Time I Knew I Was a Top on Autostraddle
- February 2, 2016: View From The Top: I Started As A Bottom on Autostraddle
- December 10, 2015: THE SUPEROTICA ADVENT CALENDAR 2015 DAY 10 – SINCLAIR SEXSMITH
- December 9, 2015: "Sweet & Rough" Featured in Kink Academy Newsletter
- November 11, 2015: Sinclair Sexsmith in the Corner (Bill Wadman)
- October 1, 2015: 9 Best Sites For Free Erotica, on Bustle
- September 22, 2015: Intimate Chat with the Lovebirds: Dominance & Submission with Sinclair Sexsmith
- September 21, 2015: Xan West’s Blog Tour, Plus Blurbs by Lyric Seal and Sinclair Sexsmith on Go Deeper Press
- September 13, 2015: Sinclair's Back Again on the Masocast
- August 29, 2015: Submissive Playground Will Teach You How to Become a Better Submissive (plus discount!) —on Crevice Canyon
- April 22, 2015: Professional kinkist Sinclair Sexsmith hosts discussion on campus
- February 14, 2015: 50 Adult Stars And Professional Fetishists On Why They Hate 'Fifty Shades Of Grey' on SFist.com
- October 29, 2014: The Sexy Librarian Blog Podcast: Sinclair returns for a gender discussion
- September 22, 2014: Interview with Sinclair Sexsmith, A Very Sexy Wordsmith on Butch On Tap
- June 24, 2014: Sinclair on Erotic Awakenings Podcast
- June 17, 2014: Sinclair on the Kiss Me Quicks Podcast with Rose Caraway
- May 23, 2014: Power Play: How to Use Power to Make Even Mundane Things Super Sexy on Kinkly
- May 20, 2014: Sinclair talks about the Sexual Politics of BDSM with Queerie Bradshaw on #sexedhangout
- May 14, 2014: Announcing: Butchdom.com
- April 25, 2014: Sinclair featured on The Lux Letter
- April 8, 2014: Genderqueer authors on The O Word Radio
- March 17, 2014: Kinkly Sex Blogger of the Month: Sinclair Sexsmith
- January 21, 2014: Interview with Tina Horn on Why Are People Into That?! Podcast
- January 20, 2014: What Dyke Looks Like in Russia
- December 23, 2013: On the Masocast: Sinclair's Submissive Playground [Interview]
- December 20, 2013: Interview with Sojourner House in Rhode Island
- November 21, 2013: BUTCH At the Lexington Club
- October 24, 2013: Butch: Not Like the Other Girls
- June 30, 2013: Press Release: Opportunities available with BUTCH Voices: 2013 Street Teams!
- June 19, 2013: Pride Issue: Why Don't Lesbians Hook Up Online? in the Village Voice
- June 12, 2013: BUTCH Voices Press Release: Call for Proposals Deadline Extended
- April 26, 2013: Press Release: BUTCH Voices Spring 2013 Newsletter
- April 10, 2013: Press: "‘Sex Week’ to Host Erotic Writing Workshop"
- March 26, 2013: Press: "University of Tennessee Decides Not to Use State Tax Dollars to Fund ‘Sex Week’"
- March 22, 2013: Press: "University of Tennessee Pulls Funding for 'Sex Week'"
- March 21, 2013: "The Dirty Things She Says" on the Kiss Me Quicks Podcast
- March 21, 2013: Press: "University of Tennessee Pulls State Funding for Sex Week at Knoxville Campus Amid Outcry From Conservatives"
- March 20, 2013: Press: "University of Tennessee Pulls Funding For 'Sex Week'"
- March 20, 2013: Press: "Lawmakers Want University Defunded Over Sex Week"
- March 15, 2013: Press: "Bondage Expert to Deliver a Lecture at University’s ‘Sex Week’"
- March 14, 2013: Press: "University of Tennessee Uses Student Fees to Host Lesbian Bondage Expert"
- March 11, 2013: Press Release: “Conversations Build Communitiesâ€: BUTCH Voices To Hold 3rd Biennial National Conference in Oakland August 15-18, 2013
- March 8, 2013: Press: "U of Tennessee to Feature Lesbian Bondage Expert as Part of $20,000 Sex Week"
- January 11, 2013: "Evolution Has Nothing to Do With It," Open Relationship Mini Interview with Charlie Glickman picked up by the Stranger's Slog
- December 15, 2012: Say Please is #97 on the Autostraddle 100 Best Lesbian Fiction & Memoir Books of All Time
- December 4, 2012: "What if you shut down or feel detached during intercourse?" Advice on What They Are Asking
- November 6, 2012: The Three Minute Game on Good Vibes Magazine
- November 1, 2012: Dirty Filthy Nasty on Good Vibes Magazine
- October 17, 2012: "How do I share my porn preferences with my long time girlfriend?" Video on What They Are Asking
- October 12, 2012: Experiments for Better Sex: Part 2 on Fearless Press
- October 4, 2012: New York sex bloggers recommend sex blogs and podcasts on Time Out NY
- September 19, 2012: How Can I Be More Open to Kink? on Velvet Park
- September 16, 2012: Mollena's Short Film "Impact"
- September 14, 2012: Interview with Sinclair Sexsmith on Bed, Body & Beyond
- September 13, 2012: Sex Ed 101: How to Bring In A Third on Velvet Park
- September 7, 2012: Avedon-esque Photos by Bill Wadman
- September 6, 2012: Gender & Power Intersection Video on What They Are Asking
- September 6, 2012: First View of "Impact" Video Shoot with Mollena
- September 5, 2012: 30 Must See Sex Blogs on GetLusty
- September 1, 2012: Experiments for Better Sex on Fearless Press
- August 21, 2012: Sinclair Sexsmith's Steamy Story on the Girls Who Score Blog Tour
- August 20, 2012: Philosophical & Spiritual Aspects of Strap-On Sex on What They Are Asking
- July 30, 2012: "It's Not About Quantity, It's About Satisfaction" on Fearless Press
- July 22, 2012: Cliterotica: Summer 2012 on Lambda Literary Foundation
- June 30, 2012: "What's on your LGBT agenda for the weekend?" Sinclair at Atlanta Pride
- June 18, 2012: "How do you keep the dildo from slipping out?"
- June 11, 2012: Interview with Sinclair on the Masocast
- April 28, 2012: The Center Hosts Lesbian Erotica at the LGBT Center in NYC
- April 24, 2012: A Leather Conversation with Sassafras Lowrey and Sinclair Sexsmith on Lambda Literary
- April 8, 2012: Sinclair Sexsmith on "Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica": The Autostraddle Interview
- April 6, 2012: Mr. Sexsmith Says: Strapped On Blow Jobs Are Deeply Pleasurable on SexIs Magazine
- April 5, 2012: Say Please: An Interview With Sinclair Sexsmith About Kinky Lesbian Smut on Good Vibes Magazine
- March 20, 2012: Cliterotica: Winter 2012 on Lambda Literary
- March 9, 2012: Mr. Sexsmith Says: Are Butches Who Fuck Butches “Too Gay� on SexIs Magazine
- February 27, 2012: Hogtied on Autostraddle
- February 24, 2012: Mr. Sexsmith Says: You Can Get Your Needs Met Within Monogamy on SexIs Magazine
- February 1, 2012: Interview with Jack Halberstam on LambdaLiterary.org
- February 1, 2012: Mr. Sexsmith Says: Get Off While Strapped On on SexIs Magazine
- January 19, 2012: Mr. Sexsmith Says: Don't Worry, Be Kinky on SexIs Magazine
- January 4, 2012: Mr. Sexsmith Says: Bring Your Average-Size Cock, Just In Case on SexIs Magazine
- December 21, 2011: Mr. Sexsmith Says: She Likes My Butch Breasts and I Don't on SexIs Magazine
- October 26, 2011: Mr. Sexsmith Says: From One Butch To Another, Here's How To Get Off More Easily on SexIs Magazine
- October 18, 2011: Her Best Line on Good Vibes Magazine
- October 13, 2011: The Study Date on Good Vibes Magazine
- October 12, 2011: Mr. Sexsmith Says: If You're a Bottom, Own It on SexIs Magazine
- October 10, 2011: Interview with Tristan Taormino: The Power of Erotica on Lambda Literary Foundation
- September 30, 2011: Sugarbutch Says: What does Kelli Dunham have to be funny about? on AfterEllen
- September 28, 2011: Cliterotica: Lesbian Erotica Roundup Fall 2011 on Lambda Literary
- September 28, 2011: Mr. Sexsmith Says: Don't Assume All Butches Are Stone on SexIs Magazine
- September 20, 2011: Rocking Chair Blow Job on Drunken Boat
- September 8, 2011: Sweat & Summer on Good Vibes Magazine
- September 1, 2011: The Guest Star on Good Vibes Magazine
- August 23, 2011: Sugarbutch Says: Gay Anthems Beyond "Born This Way" on AfterEllen
- June 14, 2011: Ask Our Sex Diarists: Was Anthony Weiner Cheating?
- June 2, 2011: Val McDermid: Pioneer Award Spotlight on Lambda Literary Foundation
- June 2, 2011: Transition to Femininity on AAG Blog
- June 1, 2011: Magic & Belonging: The 23rd Annual Lambda Literary Awards on AfterEllen
- May 19, 2011: Video Inspiration for He Said / We Said on DapperQ
- May 16, 2011: He Said / We Said: Moschino on DapperQ
- May 12, 2011: The Official 2011 Autostraddle Hot 100: Real Gay Ladies #93 (in Alphabetical Order)
- May 12, 2011: New Photo by Bill Wadman
- April 29, 2011: The Five Stages of Long Term Relationships at Good Vibes Magazine
- April 22, 2011: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend: New York City Loves Me Back
- April 13, 2011: Interview in the Wisconsin Gazette
- April 8, 2011: Sugarbutch Says: k.d. lang Maintains Her Female Masculinity
- April 8, 2011: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend: New York’s Crash Course in Cock Confidence
- March 18, 2011: Cliterotica: Spring 2011 on LambdaLiterary.com
- February 23, 2011: "Piercing, Waxing, and Other Body Modifications as Sex Toys" on Good Vibrations Magazine
- February 10, 2011: Sugarbutch Says: Happy 15th Anniversary, "Boys for Pele" on AfterEllen.com
- February 9, 2011: Mr. Sexsmith’s Other Girlfriend: Can Your Relationship Handle Valentine’s Day Gifts? on SexIs Magazine
- February 2, 2011: Sinclair Sexsmith's Top Sex Toys on Good Vibes Magazine
- January 31, 2011: "Persistence" Book Contributor Mini-Interview
- December 13, 2010: Cliterotica: Winter 2010 Lesbian Erotica Roundup on Lambda Literary Foundation
- December 1, 2010: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend: World AIDS Day & Public Health Activism
- November 23, 2010: "In Search of Male Butches" on Bilerico
- November 20, 2010: Pink & White covers the Upcoming Porn Party
- November 5, 2010: The New Butch Project on AfterEllen
- November 3, 2010: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend: Sex Positivity is a Path of Courage
- October 27, 2010: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend: Should vs Shame
- October 25, 2010: Becoming More Dominant on the Good Vibes Magazine
- October 21, 2010: Sugarbutch Says: Dressing Like A Boy on AfterEllen
- October 20, 2010: Village Voice mentions me as one of the Best Sex Bloggers in 2010
- October 20, 2010: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend: Falling Into Winter With Your Sweetheart
- September 29, 2010: Stud Finder: Butch Voices Conference Forges Community Bonds (GO! Magazine)
- September 27, 2010: The Newly Shacked-Up Lesbian Testing Out the Strap-On (New York Magazine Sex Diary)
- September 21, 2010: Cliterotica: A Lesbian Erotica Quarterly on Lambda Literary Foundation
- September 13, 2010: Brief Interview on The Daily Queer
- September 8, 2010: "Hump Day Hero: Sinclair Sexsmith" at the CSPH
- September 8, 2010: Me & Moon in Conversation on Velvet Park
- August 31, 2010: On Making Sex Last: Cheerleading & Open Relationships on Good Vibes Magazine
- August 25, 2010: Lynnee Breedlove's One Freak Show
- August 22, 2010: Heavenly Spire: An Interview with Shine Louise Houston
- August 1, 2010: Radical Masculinity: Masculinity & Dominance
- July 26, 2010: The Ongoing Quest To Be Sexually Fulfilled on Good Vibes Magazine
- July 26, 2010: New to You: A Review of Good Porn
- July 21, 2010: The “Lesbian Who Sleeps With a Man†Trope in "The Kids Are All Right"
- July 18, 2010: Grim Consequences: When Young People Get Laid
- July 15, 2010: Five Poets Who Changed My Life on Lambda Literary Foundation
- July 13, 2010: Podcast Interview: Dominance on the Masocast
- June 17, 2010: I'm in GO! Magazine's 100 Women We Love List
- June 11, 2010: Sideshow! Reading Series featured in Time Out NY!
- May 11, 2010: Radical Sex: What's In It For Men?
- April 27, 2010: What Does LGBT Really Mean? and Strap-On 101
- April 25, 2010: Sugarbutch Says: Butches on Television (After Ellen)
- March 12, 2010: The Feministing Five: Interview
- February 10, 2010: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend #2: Five Ways to Improve Your Sex Life
- February 3, 2010: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend #1: The Myth of New York
- December 31, 2009: Radical Masculinity #3: When Men Wear Skirts
- December 14, 2009: On the Examiner: Butch & Femme Definitions
- November 19, 2009: Radical Masculinity #2: How to Make Masculinity Stop Hurting
- September 30, 2009: Radical Masculinity #1: A Manifesto for Radical Masculinity
- April 1, 2009: Visible: A Femmethology Volume II