Clipped from: www.afterellen.com by clp.ly Exciting! This is my first piece on AfterEllen.com, and here’s the clip of the front page to prove it. For as long as I can recall, I have been obsessed with butches. Whenever I spotted some type of female masculinity on any character, on TV or in films or [...]
Five Ways to Improve Your Sex Life February 10, 2010 Mr. Sexsmith’s Other Girlfriend for SexIs I won’t lie: Sex has saved me. From myself especially. From going so deep into the spirals of my own brain which could drive me crazy. But when everything is perfect, there is no mind in sex. There is [...]
The Myth of New York February 3, 2010 Mr. Sexsmith’s Other Girlfriend for SexIs If New York City was on Facebook, our relationship status would say “It’s Complicated.” I love her, I do; I have idolized her since I was a kid, watching all my favorite cheesy eighties movies like Big Business, The Secret of [...]
When Men Wear Skirts December 31, 2009 Radical Masculinity for Carnal Nation At a bar last week, catching up with some feminist queer old friends, I began discussing my ideas around Radical Masculinity and the theories I am putting forward about the ways masculinity needs work. I drunkenly argued that women have surpassed men with [...]
How to Make Masculinity Stop Hurting Radical Masculinity column at Carnal Nation November 11, 2009 My dad’s best friend died last week. Heart attack. He was 60, barely older than my dad, not old enough for his heart to give way. They’ve been friends for 35 years, longer than I’ve been alive. I got a [...]
A Manifesto for Radical Masculinity Radical Masculinity column at Carnal Nation September 30, 2009 Remember back in the Spring of 2009 when two young boys committed suicide within a week of each other, both eleven years old? Carl Joseph Walker-Hoover of Massachusetts and Jaheem Herrera of Georgia were both being subjected to unbearable anti-gay bullying [...]