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- November 19, 2020: The Dildorks Episode 215: Touch Me So Write
- November 7, 2020: Sharing sex-positive shit — On Queer Street
- September 11, 2020: Guest advice on Stoya's How To Do It column on Slate
- June 20, 2020: The best lesbian erotica, from free porn to erotic films on Daily Dot
- June 18, 2020: Constellations #4 — Puppy Pile on Autostraddle
- May 21, 2020: Constellations #3: Bennett & Reina Turn Concrete to Sand on Autostraddle
- April 30, 2020: Constellations #2 — Paige & Tacey A Good Girl on Autostraddle
- April 23, 2020: Constellations #1 — Bennet & Paige On A Silver Platter on Autostraddle
- March 9, 2020: The best erotica collections of 2020 on sofiagray.com
- February 14, 2020: The Best Free Online Erotica for One-Handed Reading on Shape
- January 20, 2020: Review: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 4 on Love Bytes: LGBTQ Book Reviews
- January 20, 2020: 11 Steamy and Free Erotic Literature Sites on Refinery
- December 27, 2019: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 4 featured on Publisher's Weekly
- December 19, 2019: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 4 on MI Book Reviews
- September 16, 2019: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 4 Book Review from @kleffnotes on The Nerdy Girl Express
- December 20, 2018: 12 Days of Girly Juice 2018: 5 Sex-Savvy Superheroes on GirlyJuice by Kate Sloan
- July 20, 2018: 6 Best Places on the Internet To Read Lesbian Erotica on Cosmopolitan
- July 9, 2018: "Sex Outside the Lines", Interview on The Advocate
- July 5, 2018: 11 of the best lesbian erotica books and short stories on Cosmopolitan UK
- July 4, 2018: The Dildorks Podcast, Episode 93: Protocol Me Maybe
- April 18, 2018: Mention of Sinclair on 3 D/s Protocols I’m Loving Lately on Girlyjuice by Kate Sloan
- February 13, 2018: Why Some People Don't Like Morning Sex on Vice
- January 23, 2018: How To Get (Or Give) A Strap-On Blow Job on Autostraddle
- July 27, 2017: Our Bodies, Our Selves Interview in Our Lives Madison by Marcelle Richards
- March 21, 2017: Sex in the air: LGBTQ speaker talks BDSM politics
- September 12, 2016: View From The Top: Wine and Pie and Collars on Autostraddle
- May 24, 2016: View From The Top: Theory Is Foreplay, Right? on Autostraddle
- May 12, 2016: Potency at Portals at Body Trust
- May 10, 2016: View From The Top: Canes Are Sticks!
- April 27, 2016: The Best of Butch Twitter on AfterEllen
- April 26, 2016: View From The Top: It’s Like 10,000 Femme Tops When All You Need Is A Bottom on Autostraddle
- April 20, 2016: The (Gender) Book of Love on Pure Pop for Queer Lovers Radio
- April 15, 2016: Two of the Most Essential Embodiment Skills on Body Trust
- April 12, 2016: View From The Top: Don’t Come Until I Say You Can on Autostraddle
- April 1, 2016: Sex Links / Sex with Timaree
- March 29, 2016: View From The Top: Dividing Acts and Power on Autostraddle
- March 25, 2016: Contributor Interview for the Autostraddle Insider, Issue 21
- March 15, 2016: View From The Top: How I Went From Top To Dominant on Autostraddle
- March 1, 2016: View From The Top: How Topping Taught Me Physics And Feminism on Autostraddle
- February 19, 2016: TGIF: WEEK OF FEBRUARY 19TH, 2016 on The CSPH
- February 16, 2016: View From The Top: The First Time I Knew I Was a Top on Autostraddle
- February 2, 2016: View From The Top: I Started As A Bottom on Autostraddle
- December 10, 2015: THE SUPEROTICA ADVENT CALENDAR 2015 DAY 10 – SINCLAIR SEXSMITH
- December 9, 2015: "Sweet & Rough" Featured in Kink Academy Newsletter
- November 11, 2015: Sinclair Sexsmith in the Corner (Bill Wadman)
- October 1, 2015: 9 Best Sites For Free Erotica, on Bustle
- September 22, 2015: Intimate Chat with the Lovebirds: Dominance & Submission with Sinclair Sexsmith
- September 21, 2015: Xan West’s Blog Tour, Plus Blurbs by Lyric Seal and Sinclair Sexsmith on Go Deeper Press
- September 13, 2015: Sinclair's Back Again on the Masocast
- August 29, 2015: Submissive Playground Will Teach You How to Become a Better Submissive (plus discount!) —on Crevice Canyon
- April 22, 2015: Professional kinkist Sinclair Sexsmith hosts discussion on campus
- February 14, 2015: 50 Adult Stars And Professional Fetishists On Why They Hate 'Fifty Shades Of Grey' on SFist.com
- October 29, 2014: The Sexy Librarian Blog Podcast: Sinclair returns for a gender discussion
- September 22, 2014: Interview with Sinclair Sexsmith, A Very Sexy Wordsmith on Butch On Tap
- June 24, 2014: Sinclair on Erotic Awakenings Podcast
- June 17, 2014: Sinclair on the Kiss Me Quicks Podcast with Rose Caraway
- May 23, 2014: Power Play: How to Use Power to Make Even Mundane Things Super Sexy on Kinkly
- May 20, 2014: Sinclair talks about the Sexual Politics of BDSM with Queerie Bradshaw on #sexedhangout
- May 14, 2014: Announcing: Butchdom.com
- April 25, 2014: Sinclair featured on The Lux Letter
- April 8, 2014: Genderqueer authors on The O Word Radio
- March 17, 2014: Kinkly Sex Blogger of the Month: Sinclair Sexsmith
- January 21, 2014: Interview with Tina Horn on Why Are People Into That?! Podcast
- January 20, 2014: What Dyke Looks Like in Russia
- December 23, 2013: On the Masocast: Sinclair's Submissive Playground [Interview]
- December 20, 2013: Interview with Sojourner House in Rhode Island
- November 21, 2013: BUTCH At the Lexington Club
- October 24, 2013: Butch: Not Like the Other Girls
- June 30, 2013: Press Release: Opportunities available with BUTCH Voices: 2013 Street Teams!
- June 19, 2013: Pride Issue: Why Don't Lesbians Hook Up Online? in the Village Voice
- June 12, 2013: BUTCH Voices Press Release: Call for Proposals Deadline Extended
- April 26, 2013: Press Release: BUTCH Voices Spring 2013 Newsletter
- April 10, 2013: Press: "‘Sex Week’ to Host Erotic Writing Workshop"
- March 26, 2013: Press: "University of Tennessee Decides Not to Use State Tax Dollars to Fund ‘Sex Week’"
- March 22, 2013: Press: "University of Tennessee Pulls Funding for 'Sex Week'"
- March 21, 2013: "The Dirty Things She Says" on the Kiss Me Quicks Podcast
- March 21, 2013: Press: "University of Tennessee Pulls State Funding for Sex Week at Knoxville Campus Amid Outcry From Conservatives"
- March 20, 2013: Press: "University of Tennessee Pulls Funding For 'Sex Week'"
- March 20, 2013: Press: "Lawmakers Want University Defunded Over Sex Week"
- March 15, 2013: Press: "Bondage Expert to Deliver a Lecture at University’s ‘Sex Week’"
- March 14, 2013: Press: "University of Tennessee Uses Student Fees to Host Lesbian Bondage Expert"
- March 11, 2013: Press Release: “Conversations Build Communitiesâ€: BUTCH Voices To Hold 3rd Biennial National Conference in Oakland August 15-18, 2013
- March 8, 2013: Press: "U of Tennessee to Feature Lesbian Bondage Expert as Part of $20,000 Sex Week"
- January 11, 2013: "Evolution Has Nothing to Do With It," Open Relationship Mini Interview with Charlie Glickman picked up by the Stranger's Slog
- December 15, 2012: Say Please is #97 on the Autostraddle 100 Best Lesbian Fiction & Memoir Books of All Time
- December 4, 2012: "What if you shut down or feel detached during intercourse?" Advice on What They Are Asking
- November 6, 2012: The Three Minute Game on Good Vibes Magazine
- November 1, 2012: Dirty Filthy Nasty on Good Vibes Magazine
- October 17, 2012: "How do I share my porn preferences with my long time girlfriend?" Video on What They Are Asking
- October 12, 2012: Experiments for Better Sex: Part 2 on Fearless Press
- October 4, 2012: New York sex bloggers recommend sex blogs and podcasts on Time Out NY
- September 19, 2012: How Can I Be More Open to Kink? on Velvet Park
- September 16, 2012: Mollena's Short Film "Impact"
- September 14, 2012: Interview with Sinclair Sexsmith on Bed, Body & Beyond
- September 13, 2012: Sex Ed 101: How to Bring In A Third on Velvet Park
- September 7, 2012: Avedon-esque Photos by Bill Wadman
- September 6, 2012: Gender & Power Intersection Video on What They Are Asking
- September 6, 2012: First View of "Impact" Video Shoot with Mollena
- September 5, 2012: 30 Must See Sex Blogs on GetLusty
- September 1, 2012: Experiments for Better Sex on Fearless Press
- August 21, 2012: Sinclair Sexsmith's Steamy Story on the Girls Who Score Blog Tour
- August 20, 2012: Philosophical & Spiritual Aspects of Strap-On Sex on What They Are Asking
- July 30, 2012: "It's Not About Quantity, It's About Satisfaction" on Fearless Press
- July 22, 2012: Cliterotica: Summer 2012 on Lambda Literary Foundation
- June 30, 2012: "What's on your LGBT agenda for the weekend?" Sinclair at Atlanta Pride
- June 18, 2012: "How do you keep the dildo from slipping out?"
- June 11, 2012: Interview with Sinclair on the Masocast
- April 28, 2012: The Center Hosts Lesbian Erotica at the LGBT Center in NYC
- April 24, 2012: A Leather Conversation with Sassafras Lowrey and Sinclair Sexsmith on Lambda Literary
- April 8, 2012: Sinclair Sexsmith on "Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica": The Autostraddle Interview
- April 6, 2012: Mr. Sexsmith Says: Strapped On Blow Jobs Are Deeply Pleasurable on SexIs Magazine
- April 5, 2012: Say Please: An Interview With Sinclair Sexsmith About Kinky Lesbian Smut on Good Vibes Magazine
- March 20, 2012: Cliterotica: Winter 2012 on Lambda Literary
- March 9, 2012: Mr. Sexsmith Says: Are Butches Who Fuck Butches “Too Gay� on SexIs Magazine
- February 27, 2012: Hogtied on Autostraddle
- February 24, 2012: Mr. Sexsmith Says: You Can Get Your Needs Met Within Monogamy on SexIs Magazine
- February 1, 2012: Interview with Jack Halberstam on LambdaLiterary.org
- February 1, 2012: Mr. Sexsmith Says: Get Off While Strapped On on SexIs Magazine
- January 19, 2012: Mr. Sexsmith Says: Don't Worry, Be Kinky on SexIs Magazine
- January 4, 2012: Mr. Sexsmith Says: Bring Your Average-Size Cock, Just In Case on SexIs Magazine
- December 21, 2011: Mr. Sexsmith Says: She Likes My Butch Breasts and I Don't on SexIs Magazine
- October 26, 2011: Mr. Sexsmith Says: From One Butch To Another, Here's How To Get Off More Easily on SexIs Magazine
- October 18, 2011: Her Best Line on Good Vibes Magazine
- October 13, 2011: The Study Date on Good Vibes Magazine
- October 12, 2011: Mr. Sexsmith Says: If You're a Bottom, Own It on SexIs Magazine
- October 10, 2011: Interview with Tristan Taormino: The Power of Erotica on Lambda Literary Foundation
- September 30, 2011: Sugarbutch Says: What does Kelli Dunham have to be funny about? on AfterEllen
- September 28, 2011: Cliterotica: Lesbian Erotica Roundup Fall 2011 on Lambda Literary
- September 28, 2011: Mr. Sexsmith Says: Don't Assume All Butches Are Stone on SexIs Magazine
- September 20, 2011: Rocking Chair Blow Job on Drunken Boat
- September 8, 2011: Sweat & Summer on Good Vibes Magazine
- September 1, 2011: The Guest Star on Good Vibes Magazine
- August 23, 2011: Sugarbutch Says: Gay Anthems Beyond "Born This Way" on AfterEllen
- June 14, 2011: Ask Our Sex Diarists: Was Anthony Weiner Cheating?
- June 2, 2011: Val McDermid: Pioneer Award Spotlight on Lambda Literary Foundation
- June 2, 2011: Transition to Femininity on AAG Blog
- June 1, 2011: Magic & Belonging: The 23rd Annual Lambda Literary Awards on AfterEllen
- May 19, 2011: Video Inspiration for He Said / We Said on DapperQ
- May 16, 2011: He Said / We Said: Moschino on DapperQ
- May 12, 2011: The Official 2011 Autostraddle Hot 100: Real Gay Ladies #93 (in Alphabetical Order)
- May 12, 2011: New Photo by Bill Wadman
- April 29, 2011: The Five Stages of Long Term Relationships at Good Vibes Magazine
- April 22, 2011: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend: New York City Loves Me Back
- April 13, 2011: Interview in the Wisconsin Gazette
- April 8, 2011: Sugarbutch Says: k.d. lang Maintains Her Female Masculinity
- April 8, 2011: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend: New York’s Crash Course in Cock Confidence
- March 18, 2011: Cliterotica: Spring 2011 on LambdaLiterary.com
- February 23, 2011: "Piercing, Waxing, and Other Body Modifications as Sex Toys" on Good Vibrations Magazine
- February 10, 2011: Sugarbutch Says: Happy 15th Anniversary, "Boys for Pele" on AfterEllen.com
- February 9, 2011: Mr. Sexsmith’s Other Girlfriend: Can Your Relationship Handle Valentine’s Day Gifts? on SexIs Magazine
- February 2, 2011: Sinclair Sexsmith's Top Sex Toys on Good Vibes Magazine
- January 31, 2011: "Persistence" Book Contributor Mini-Interview
- December 13, 2010: Cliterotica: Winter 2010 Lesbian Erotica Roundup on Lambda Literary Foundation
- December 1, 2010: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend: World AIDS Day & Public Health Activism
- November 23, 2010: "In Search of Male Butches" on Bilerico
- November 20, 2010: Pink & White covers the Upcoming Porn Party
- November 5, 2010: The New Butch Project on AfterEllen
- November 3, 2010: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend: Sex Positivity is a Path of Courage
- October 27, 2010: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend: Should vs Shame
- October 25, 2010: Becoming More Dominant on the Good Vibes Magazine
- October 21, 2010: Sugarbutch Says: Dressing Like A Boy on AfterEllen
- October 20, 2010: Village Voice mentions me as one of the Best Sex Bloggers in 2010
- October 20, 2010: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend: Falling Into Winter With Your Sweetheart
- September 29, 2010: Stud Finder: Butch Voices Conference Forges Community Bonds (GO! Magazine)
- September 27, 2010: The Newly Shacked-Up Lesbian Testing Out the Strap-On (New York Magazine Sex Diary)
- September 21, 2010: Cliterotica: A Lesbian Erotica Quarterly on Lambda Literary Foundation
- September 13, 2010: Brief Interview on The Daily Queer
- September 8, 2010: "Hump Day Hero: Sinclair Sexsmith" at the CSPH
- September 8, 2010: Me & Moon in Conversation on Velvet Park
- August 31, 2010: On Making Sex Last: Cheerleading & Open Relationships on Good Vibes Magazine
- August 25, 2010: Lynnee Breedlove's One Freak Show
- August 22, 2010: Heavenly Spire: An Interview with Shine Louise Houston
- August 1, 2010: Radical Masculinity: Masculinity & Dominance
- July 26, 2010: The Ongoing Quest To Be Sexually Fulfilled on Good Vibes Magazine
- July 26, 2010: New to You: A Review of Good Porn
- July 21, 2010: The “Lesbian Who Sleeps With a Man†Trope in "The Kids Are All Right"
- July 18, 2010: Grim Consequences: When Young People Get Laid
- July 15, 2010: Five Poets Who Changed My Life on Lambda Literary Foundation
- July 13, 2010: Podcast Interview: Dominance on the Masocast
- June 17, 2010: I'm in GO! Magazine's 100 Women We Love List
- June 11, 2010: Sideshow! Reading Series featured in Time Out NY!
- May 11, 2010: Radical Sex: What's In It For Men?
- April 27, 2010: What Does LGBT Really Mean? and Strap-On 101
- April 25, 2010: Sugarbutch Says: Butches on Television (After Ellen)
- March 12, 2010: The Feministing Five: Interview
- February 10, 2010: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend #2: Five Ways to Improve Your Sex Life
- February 3, 2010: Mr. Sexsmith's Other Girlfriend #1: The Myth of New York
- December 31, 2009: Radical Masculinity #3: When Men Wear Skirts
- December 14, 2009: On the Examiner: Butch & Femme Definitions
- November 19, 2009: Radical Masculinity #2: How to Make Masculinity Stop Hurting
- September 30, 2009: Radical Masculinity #1: A Manifesto for Radical Masculinity
- April 1, 2009: Visible: A Femmethology Volume II